We’ve all been here before: you and your partner are planning on going out to eat for dinner, but right before you leave you try and decide where to go and you end up fighting!

Turns out that you’re not alone because a new survey finds that the average couple fights 156 different times during the year about where to eat.

According to SWNS Digital, the survey was conducted by Panera Bread and finds that not only will the average couple argue three times a week about where to eat, but that these fights usually take about 17 minutes before settling on a place.

Now obviously Panera Bread conducting the study is a little biased, because they probably want you to eat at Panera, but above all else just play it safe with pizza or tacos!